Let me quote a phrase that one of my students has described about me. That is, I am a teacher who could be easily bullied. This phrase keeps me smirking when I heard that from the mouth of my student. Although he or she is not wrong to say that I am easily bullied as I have been easygoing to them, they have failed to see the devil side of me. In the first place, I have never wanted to be fierce to my students unless they have offended me (which cannot be forgiven) or doing unjustified things. In my belief, they are still in the growing years. Thus, they should be given ample time to amend their flaws if they have.
In contrast, I could not stop myself to reveal the evil side of me when I was rushing to the western side of Singapore to get a home printer for myself where there is electronics warehouse sale going on. I was initially elated for the fact that I have managed to get a monochrome laser printer at a price of $68 (with a toner that could print 2,500 pages). While queuing, I have realised that I wasn’t given trolley for the bulky printer as I saw one of the customers was issued with a trolley even though her printer is more costly than I do. At this juncture, I began to realise that I could not carry the printer home if I am not given the trolley since I am not taking a cab back home. Thus, I requested for a trolley for the printer from one of the staff in the counter politely as I will be carrying the printer home via public transport. Yet, he told me to get the trolley from the printer section. Upon reaching the printer section, the sales lady told me that the trolley is given to the customer who has brought printer that is beyond $300. At that moment, I was enraged as her words are too deregatory. In the first place, I wouldn’t have to rush down to this warehouse sale if I am indeed rich. She is not even in the position to say such a thing as it is customer’s choice to buy the item he or she likes. If she finds that the product is too cheap or demean the actual value of the product, her company should not have sold us at that price. Despite this, I insist in explaining my situation to her that I could only carry home this printer to my house at Hougang by myself via public transport. Yet, she told me off that one of her customers could carry the printer home even though she lives in Pasir Ris. At that spur of moment, I was indeed pissed off and thus chided her. I told her off that she could have carried this printer without the trolley as there is someone sending her home via car or she could have taken a cab. In my case, I will only carry this printer home using public transport even though it is inconvenient. In addition, I have told her that the company should not have given trolley based on the value of the printer. They should consider giving it to customers who really needs it (e.g. my case). If they have experienced shortage of trollies, they should give to the customers who requests for it when they have brought their printers. If not, they are simply despising customers who buy the $68 printer. After the long scolding, the saleslady asked me to chill down. Fortunately, her supervisior passed by. He tasked them to give me the trolley. Does it mean that I need to scold them in order to make things happen?
Well, I do admit that I do not come from wealthy family. Yet, this does not give them the right to despise my family background. I have paid for the printer using the money that I have earned from the jobs that I have done with my own hand and effort. In fact, I was forced to learn the importance of money when I was born in a lower income family. If not, I will not have shrimped my money to bring the printer home via public transport. I could have taken a cab to save the time and effort.
Thus, a question arises. When is it possible for Singapore to balance between being realistic and considerate for others?